{"id":3337,"date":"2021-03-20T05:02:22","date_gmt":"2021-03-20T05:02:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/?p=3337"},"modified":"2021-06-21T05:53:25","modified_gmt":"2021-06-21T05:53:25","slug":"free-play-and-happiness-my-observations-when-my-daughter-was-around-3-5-years","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/index.php\/2021\/03\/20\/free-play-and-happiness-my-observations-when-my-daughter-was-around-3-5-years\/","title":{"rendered":"Free play &#8211; Happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3337\" class=\"elementor elementor-3337\" data-elementor-settings=\"[]\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-section-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3a45012 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3a45012\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-db56afa\" data-id=\"db56afa\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ac737c9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ac737c9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\"><h4><i>My Observations When My Daughter Was Around 3.5 Years<\/i><span style=\"font-size: 15px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.73); font-family: Montserrat, sans-serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h4><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span>Living aboard with less family around it always my daughter and myself alone most of the day. I can engage and play with her at max of 1 hour a day. Yes, this applies to her dad too!\u00a0<\/p><p>True ! No parent can\u00a0engage a kid always. Kids need time to think and articulate.\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 15px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><b>How we\u00a0engage ?\u00a0<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\">Playing with her will be like 20 mins-20 mins -20 mins throughout that day based on her mood, my house hold work and my \u2018me\u2019 time schedule. &#8216;Me&#8217; time always helps SAHM mommies especially to maintain their sanity.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\">Few days we read 5-6 books for like 1.5 hours and few other days she turns pages &amp; tells story based on pictures (her own story) and less reading from my side!<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So this lead my daughter to do more free play as early as 18 months, then she started to be more independent !<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With structured toy setup, she ends up choosing her Peppa toys more and these are her play buddies for more than 8-10 months!<\/span><\/p><p><b>What does my daughter do during free play?<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These toys are actually her class student\u2019s yes literally. She reads books, questions and imitates just like her school teacher. And when her Peppa toys fight and throws tantrums, they get time outs\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She has converted her dominos in her class setup. Feeds her toys, teach them, give them play ground time and so on!\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\">It will look like she talking more to toys but she is learning a lot. I allow free plays during weekends or when I can\u2019t engage her much or when toys are not sorted.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t not need any fancy toys but go for simple toys, for these free play activities. These encourages a lot of imagination in kids which is really important for kids to growth both physically and mentally.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At end every kid is unique, these activities kindles their creativity!<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d0f977d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d0f977d\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d704f2b\" data-id=\"d704f2b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c4cf696 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"c4cf696\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"828\" height=\"442\" src=\"https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1-9.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1-9.jpeg 828w, https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1-9-300x160.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1-9-768x410.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 828px) 100vw, 828px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3bac44f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"3bac44f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"828\" height=\"833\" src=\"https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/3-4.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/3-4.jpeg 828w, https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/3-4-298x300.jpeg 298w, https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/3-4-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/3-4-768x773.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 828px) 100vw, 828px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ac29295\" data-id=\"ac29295\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cf95036 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"cf95036\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"828\" height=\"998\" src=\"https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/2-9.jpeg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/2-9.jpeg 828w, https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/2-9-249x300.jpeg 249w, https:\/\/journalsofmomma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/2-9-768x926.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 828px) 100vw, 828px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My Observations When My Daughter Was Around 3.5 Years&nbsp; &nbsp;Living aboard with less family around it always my daughter and myself alone most of the day. I can engage and play with her at max of 1 hour a day. Yes, this applies to her dad too!&nbsp; True ! 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